Is it him or is it your hormones?

If you cannot tell anymore, you are not alone, and you are not imagining it. Midlife turns the volume up on everything. Sleep falls apart, patience runs thin, and a relationship that used to feel workable suddenly does not. Sorting out what belongs to your body and what belongs to your marriage is one of the hardest questions a woman can face, and most women face it without a map.

This event is not a push toward divorce. Some women who join us will stay married. Some will separate. Many are simply not sure, and that uncertainty deserves clear information, not assumptions about where you are headed.

Three Vetted Konenki Providers will walk you through the layers.

Sarah Scott-Weaver, a functional medicine nurse practitioner, grounds us in the body first: what is happening hormonally in perimenopause and menopause, and how to tell physical changes from relationship problems.

Deb Hurowitz, a therapist who works with women navigating identity shifts, empty nest, and the Sandwich Generation, lays out the real options if divorce is on the table, from mediation to litigation to conscious uncoupling, including what each one costs.

Nanette Drouillard-Murphy, a divorce coach who works with women over 40, speaks to the fear that keeps so many women frozen: not the divorce itself, but the question of what happens to me after.

You Will Discover

• What is happening in your body during perimenopause and menopause, and how to tell hormone-driven changes from relationship problems
• Whether menopause causes divorce, or simply reveals what was already strained, and why so many marriages hit a breaking point in midlife
• The real options if you are considering divorce, including litigation, mediation, collaborative divorce, and conscious uncoupling, with honest numbers on what each costs
• Why fear of what comes after keeps so many women stuck, and how healing can begin before you ever file
• How to think about this decision without shame, panic, or pressure in either direction
• A simple centering practice you can return to any time the overwhelm hits

Who This Is For

• The woman lying awake wondering whether she is unhappy in her marriage or just exhausted, foggy, and running on empty
• The woman who no longer recognizes herself, asking who she is now that the kids need her less and everything feels different
• The woman who has quietly made her decision but is terrified of the first step and of what life looks like on the other side
• The woman getting conflicting advice about divorce with no clear picture of what it involves or what it costs
• The woman whose symptoms are straining her relationship and who wants to understand her body before making any big decision
• The woman who is not sure at all, and wants real information without anyone assuming where she is headed

About the Speakers

Sarah Scott-Weaver, FNP-C, HN-BC, IFMCP knows what it feels like to be told your labs are normal while everything inside you says otherwise. Diagnosed with Hashimoto’s in her early twenties, she lived with chronic fatigue for years before becoming the provider she had needed, earning her Family Nurse Practitioner certification, Holistic Nurse Board Certification, and Institute for Functional Medicine Certification. Her practice, Entourage Functional Medicine, has offices in Tacoma, Washington and Fort Wayne, Indiana, with telehealth across Washington, Indiana, and Texas. Now navigating perimenopause herself, her clinical focus centers on the intersection of energy, mood, and hormones in midlife women.

Deb Hurowitz, LICSW is the founder of Still Me Therapy, supporting women navigating life transitions, from perimenopause and menopause to empty nest shifts and the challenges of the Sandwich Generation. She earned her Master of Social Work from Boston College School of Social Work in 2008 and, across 17 years of practice, has walked with clients from new motherhood into midlife, always prioritizing that women are heard. Her specialties include life transitions, anxiety, self-esteem and identity, stress and burnout, and trauma, and she has been EMDR certified since 2024. She practices from Framingham, Massachusetts.

Nanette Drouillard-Murphy is a Divorce and Life Reinvention Coach for women over 40, specializing in guiding women through the complexities of gray divorce. Having navigated this journey herself, she deeply understands the emotional, financial, and practical challenges of ending a long-term marriage later in life. Her mission is to change the narrative of divorce, shifting it from something that simply happens to you into an opportunity for clarity, preparation, and transformation, helping women move from fear to freedom. Based in Royal Oak, Michigan, she coaches women virtually with no geographic restrictions.